Personal Impact

 

Personal Impact

Ever suggested something and had it ignored, only to hear someone else suggest the very same thing and be greeted with enthusiastic approval?

 
 
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The messenger is the message..

Consider how quickly you form an impression of people when you first meet them. Within a few seconds you get a sense of what they’re like as a person. And others do the same when they meet you. This impression will determine how they respond to you and your ideas.


Your impact…

is created by hundreds of tiny cues in how you speak and behave. You’re unaware of them – that’s just how you are, right? But while others don’t consciously notice most of these cues, their subconscious is continually picking up on what you say and do. So if someone asks “what’s she like?” or “what do you think of him?” they’ll probably describe you in terms of subjective personal qualities like credible or warm or serious or trustworthy or disorganised and so on. They won’t necessarily know where they got that impression but, for them, it’s who and what you are.

But this is about more than simply first impressions. The way others experience you on a day-to-day basis – whether they believe in you – will hugely affect your ability to influence them. Many of my clients want to shake up the way they are perceived at work. Sometimes it’s about stepping up to influence more senior people. Often it’s about gravitas.

So I start by asking how you want to come across. I then give specific, expert feedback on the impact you’re currently creating and how it’s being created. Then we work to merge the two by practising in a safe, supportive environment.

Many of my clients are women who routinely find themselves underestimated, particularly at senior levels.

 
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Thin-slicing

The psychologist Nalina Ambady spent much of her career researching our ability to thin-slice i.e. to make snap judgements of people and situations. In one of her most important pieces of work (Ambady & Nicholson 1993) she and a colleague found that people’s assessment of the personalities of high school teachers, based on just 10” of silent video footage, were remarkably similar. Not only this but they were largely the same as the assessments of students and principals at the end of the semester. Think about that – in just 10” of visual observation, most people reach similar conclusions about personality to those who spend an entire semester getting to know someone.

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“I recently worked with Bill on a personal impact course and can't recommend him highly enough . He was incredibly adept at making people feel at their ease and also at pushing them outside of their comfort zones in a responsible and really effective way.”

Sarah Roscoe
Sales & Business Development Director
Penguin Random House

 
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